Tutal, napag-usapan na natin ang nanay at tatay ko, pag-usapan na din natin kung bakit ganun ko sila ka miss...
If there's one book where I can describe my life's story, I guess it would Anne of the Green Gables...
Hindi na secret sa mga friends ko kung ano ang story ng life ko...And where I came from...
Like Anne, I was also an adopted daughter...
Adoptive parents ko sila nanay at tatay...sabi nila, hindi daw sila nagka-anak kaya nung nasa late 40's na ang nanay, naisipan na lang nilang mag-adopt...
I was really glad kasi hindi nila ito nilihim sa akin...at kinuwento nila kung saan ako galing..
Sabi nila nanay, 3 days old pa lang daw ako nung i-adopt nila,,, biyuda daw ang biological mother ko at tatlo kaming magkakapatid...Raising 2 kids without having a stable financial source is quite difficult...panu pa kaya at ilang months na lang ay manganganak na uli siya...and ako po iyon...
Several things crossed into her mind...hoping that she'll find a way to save me...She tried looking for potential adoptive parents,,but at first, it was difficult for her...
Until one time when my biological mom at my nanay crossed their paths in life...
Naikuwento daw ng biomom(hehehe) ko sa nanay ko yung situation niya (ewan ko kung saan at kelan)...that time, hesitant pa daw si nanay kasi, may dalawa na silang inampom before, kaso nung lumaki na, binawi din nung nanay..kaya this time parang nag-dalawang isip na sila.
Kaibigan kasi ng tita ko (sister ng tatay) ko yung biomom ko, kaya after ng conversation nila, kinausap ni nanay ang tatay ko...
Sabi pa ni nanay, humingi daw siya ng sign, na kapag babae daw yung magiging anak nung biomom ko, then they're going to adopt the baby...
2 months passed and naipanganak na ako...I was named Sherilyne..yun daw ang first name ko...kaso hindi na ako napagawan ng birth certificate kasi 3 days lang ako sa biomom ko...nung malaman nila nanay at tatay na nanganak ng babae ang mom ko, in-adopt na nila ako...
Being afraid what might happen in the future, kinausap ng tatay ko yung pamangkin niyang legal practitioner, para maging legal ang adoption ko...and the rest is history...
I was really glad and thankful because I had parents like them...hindi nila ipinadama kasi na adopted lang ako...all my life nagun ko lang naiintindihan kung bakit hindi ako gusto ng ilang mga pinsan ko...I cant blame them...but i know that im not the one to blame also...
Like Anne, parehas din kaming maagang naulila sa mga adoptive parents, but we never gave up, instead like what she did, Im also trying my best to reach my goals in life. I dont want to fail what my adoptive parents planned for me.Even wihtout them, I'll still stand and work hard,I want them to be happy and never regret that they adopted me...
Pag nagka-family na din ako, Im planning to adopt also a babay girl,...sana kapag may asawa na ako, (malayo pa yun) maintindihan niya na gusto ko ding mag-adopt ng bata, I want to pay those good things forward to others, and I think through that little angel, I 'll be able to send my gratitude to my parents who loved me unconditionally...
nanay, tatay,,, mahal ko po kayo....
love, miatot
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